ditto to what Pearl said. and just keep gettin stronger. Look great and be confident when you see him next. there are a lot of people here that support the "no contact and look like you are moving on" and quite honestly in my observations of friends I would have to agree with them.
Oh.. and you said something about finances... This is not all your fault. It is usually the person being left that gets it first and starts to look inside and see's there weakness BUT your husband wasn't forced to make the decisions he has made.
Don't cut the finances and give up property because you feel guilty....please!!!!
2 to make a marriage, 2 to make it work, 2 to buy all the stuff and shold be split between 2
