I'll have to read up on your story. Mine is unfolding much the same as the way yours sounds, we're about to finish off the D paperwork and I am looking forward to the custody battle being over as with each day it draws closer, I feel a sense of relief, al beit painful, but relief none the less.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11