sorry, i dont mean to sound or be cruel. I am not anti-marriage nor anti-reconcilation. just trying to gain some insight from yall. i've been living a similar situation 20 yrs of a sex starved relationship, every so many years she pulls away, cheated, i get a divorce lawyer, we try to work on the marriage, good for a while, same crap a couple years later, decide i cant take it anymore, she gets scared we try to work it out. things go down hill again. repeat cycle.
so i quess i am trying to find some insight into my own sitch. I am willing to try again this time. she seems sincere. but i know there is a history of this not lasting. I am not going to walk around on eggshells anymore, do they need to be kept on their toes? probably made less sense this time. Steve
