she's been pretty clear that she's scared. and she wants to know how you feel. so I think you sit down and have that conversation. you understand she's scared. so are you (I think that's there anyway) because you recognize that she's beginning to pull away from you and from the marriage/intimacy. and that that's the usual first step in the spiral that becomes IT. and that makes you feel....(fill in the blank). it's what she asked for--sharing your feelings--plus it also calls her on her stuff.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
