Sugar- If you can hang in there, and if your H really looks within himself and does the work, you both will be so lucky and happy. I'm glad my posts help. It DOES help to get them off of my chest somewhere. Lord knows, my husband doesn't want to hear about my former OM thoughts/problems, etc. This tends to be my dumping ground. If I can dump the thoughts here I don't have to dwell on them. You know what I mean?
Nocode- That's so nice of you to say that. I can understand how most WAW never come back... it's not so easy coming to grips that you did some pretty awful things, and then to work on fixing the damage done. It would be so much easier to reason with yourself WHY you did those things, make the excuse for yourself, start fresh with a new relationship, ask God's forgiveness, cut your losses and move on. That really is the EASIEST and less emotionally painful route to go. I don't believe it is the right one, though, and in the end I need to be able to face myself and God. Even when I thought it couldn't get any worse, I put my trust in God, and now I'm happier than I could have imagined. It's a hard thing to do, though.
Thanks, Tal. I just read up on your situation. It sounds like your H may have had a breakthrough moment. Sometimes it has to get reallllly bad before that happens. Keep moving forward. Your family deserves it.
