I honestly would try not to think about whether you will get back together or not at the moment, just live for each day. Today, we are not together but I am going to... have fun with the kids, write a job application, go for a run... you get the idea? And then allow yourself to think long term strategy occasionally. Otherwise you are thinking in 'what if's'. Gucci, PM and others have given you really good advice, apply it to everyday life and live it.
The weekend sounds like so much fun! Enjoy your children
P.S - We all have duvet moments, it's nothing to be ashamed of. Just don't make it too regular!
