Hey dude!! It's a great question. I would have to say that it was my becoming more Gucci-esque, my wife responding to that, and me sensing that this time she seems much more self-aware and sincere in her desire to try and make it work. I've always been willing to work at this; I'd just given up hope that my wife had any real sincere desire to do anything other than go thru the motions. Something is changing in her. Puppy
an observation and question, your wife seems to question herself and return whenever there is a definite threat of losing you (your sex life improves). but there seems to be a history of when the threat of divorce disappears she tends to drift away. to the point you have some serious concerns (OM#2). would it be beneficial in your situation if the concern of you calling it quits was always lingering in the back of her mind?
Steve M.
"Stop me if you heard this one before: A man walks into a bar and leaves before his ashes hit the floor"
