It's that selfish part of the WAS that will block out (albeit temporarily) in regard to the children any intrusion to their new lifestyle. I have and will continue to use the 'I have plans' line if only to draw a boundary and not be blackmailed.
I would like to believe once this 'me time' period subsides and the fog starts to clear abit, my W will start to think that maybe the grass isn't greener and will begin to really think about her decision.
Maybe she is thinking with a clear head and wants to be on her own with the children in the house I re-built and decorated, but only time will tell on that one.
I do not believe it is fair on the children to be shoved around from pillar to post when it suits her
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
