markhaving probs dropping the rope

[markhaving probs]

Steve,

All of the above is what I am experiencing now. When you put it in those terms it makes you wonder why we are doing it, but it is because of the love we have for our WAS's.

Many LBS's are experiencing those same symtoms above, but most, like me want to work on trying to re-build a relationship rather than just walk away. At this stage I do not know when I would draw a line under our relationship, but some posters continue for years to try and restore their relationships. Hand on heart and at this stage, if my stbx dated and re-married then that would be it, but at the moment I will fight for my wife up to that point unless something else I thought was unacceptable occured.

I will try and do everything I can so that when I come to the conclusion in my own mind I can safely say I did everything I could to save our marriage. My children also would want us to get back together, and so they are a driving factor.

The question of when enough is enough can only be answered by the LBS and their own personal sitch