so last night, h came home super talkative to me, he so knew i was annoyed and pulling back. so of course after a few minutes of him trying to make conversation i get pulled in, mostly because i have to be involved when it comes to the store discussions.

i was friendly but kept to myself, he still chose to sleep on the couch in his office.

it really bothers me.

not sure what i do today, im trying 180s, no emailing, no calling.

i will go into the store today to help with deliveries because one of the guys is out.

any other advice as to what i do next in terms of pulling back and laying low, while still talking store stuff?

how do i respond if he stay friendly and talkative?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09