If you're interested in pursuing Gucci's approach with using dating OW and jealousy to attempt to rekindle your M, it might be worth you looking at the work of TW (T Dub) Jackson. This is the approach he uses in his guidance. There are some really interesting ideas I found within his advice. I've still not ventured down the road of seeing OW yet as I'm not sure I'm ready but I'm also not against the idea for anyone who is ready to take that step. As Gucci said, jealousy is a powerful emotion and as a tool is often overlooked on this site. It won't work for everyone but it may work for some. Only you can know if you think it will help your sitch.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
