I know you cannot put a timescale on things like this, but in my case I have a wife who could not care less what I do or say, thinks my family is trying to sabotage her car, is having an A, has detached from ME, has removed any evidence of me or our marriage from the marital home and is fast tracking to divorce without wavering - totally, totally focused.
My question is, have you seen/heard of any other situations where a WAS is so far removed and is not the slightest bit concerned about her LBS?
The reason I ask is that I have not given her any reason for her to re-consider her decision as I assume she is now in full PA mode and even if she was thinking about our situation (which I know she isn't) every time she meets with OM the decision meter goes back to zero and she gets her 'fix'.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
