I have just been reading some of your situation and it is so like mine and many others here. I have been betrayed by my wife who did not want counselling or mediation, nothing. This all blew up in December 08 and after 15 years and two young children we will be divorced by July.
She is in a big hurry to unveil the OM and make it look like it was a natural meeting between them. We love our spouses dearly and yet they have so little respect for us when they are in this fog. I made mistakes too, but all I wanted was to be given the opportunity to correct things, but unfortunately she never gave me the chance, which is so frustrating.
Do we really want somebody that can break up a family unit so that they can have 'me time'?
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/14/0906:52 AM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
