Thanks for posting it means a great deal to me..... Its hard isnt it; you marry this person because you love and respect them, because you trust them. And then they change, Change is always a good thing but you woudl hope that the small issue in a marriage called commitment would serve as an umbrella of understanding and tolerance in relation to that change. My H has been saying that i am not well in the head, I am suicidal and I am adanger t our daughter. The OW would most certainly be validating all of this but lets face it he employs her; she is being PAID by him. Why wouldnt she kick in and validate him, especially when the company is in trouble and she wants to keep her job. I dont know, maybe they are in love..... I loved my H in the best way I knew how; I also made mistakes like any other spouse. At the end of the day we have to be strong for our kids and lead the best life we can for both them and us. And I guess whether our WAS see the light or not we will never know but surely in the end it is their loss; if they walk out on a family unit. Isnt that the stuff of life?
