Is there any hope or is the damage done

[markhaving probs]

Hello innishannon,
Firstly, I wish you all the best at your hearing today, I cannot begin to think what it will be like.

I, like you have a WAS, in my case my wife and she is now involved in a PA. You are feeling the same pain I am, but trying to understand why our spouses do this and then rub salt into the wounds by trying to rubbish our names is so difficult to understand.

As has been said before, it is the WAS re-writing history to justify their actions. He probably does not mean anything he says just like my wife, but in the fog that they are in nothing seems to make sense.

You are doing everything you can now to protect your daughter and youself. Try to be strong and I hope everything goes well. There is great support here, I do not know where I would be without it.

Mark