Wow Renee, thanks so much for your post and your input. I am so very very sorry to hear that you have had such a painful time, what a terrible journey you have had to endure. All we can do is support each other through this extraordinary time. I know from other situations that time does heal certain things.....and I and God knows that I have tried to love him in the best way i can; I have tried to be a good wife and a good mother (which I continue to be). yes, its the trashing of us that seems the worst......even worse than the feature of the OW(in my H's case she is his development manager of his company). All I can do is be the best person I can be, love people as God directs and protect myself and my family as best as I can. Thanks so much and I will be praying for you too
