Dear Cire,
Thank you, I am so sorry to hear that you have been on the receiving end of these sorts of orders.
I have turned to God for guidance.........believe me this decision has been heartbreakingly difficult. I can only imagine what it must feel like to be served a summons.
On Gods word I have done this because I am scared and concerned for myself and my D......my husband is displaying behaviour that I dont understand.
I love your analogy of a hotplate........its so true. Yes, there is a fine line between love and hate......
I love my H but feel that I need to protect myself and move forward somehow assuming he has lost the run of himself and that he will not return.
Love is a choice and he has seemingly made that choice elsewhere.....