Is there any hope or is the damage done

[cire2]

I don't really think anyone can truly drop love like it was never there, but possibly like a hot plate. Remember the old adage "there's a fine line between love and hate" this reminds me to let the plate cool. Since he's dropped it he needs to sense the temperature or tempermant to pick it back up.

As far as the order goes, I was the one on the receiving end of one. Imagine that two years later we just started having contact and were at each others houses. Bitterness was there and then it just cooled off and the friendship begins again.

Where this might lead, who knows. Do what you feel is for the best interest of yourself and D but consider it carefully and maybe even pray for guidance. Never out of spite, we have a way of convincing ourselves of almost anything.

cire