I think it's actually nice that they will allow you to serve him yourself. The state of GA requires that the papers are served by a process server or sheriff's deputy. Of course, I got served at my office by an officer I knew. That was just lovely.

You sound like you are doing very well BBJ. Regarding the issue with Nathan feeling like he can't tell his dad about his feelings because he thinks Dan will get mad - bring it up to the counselor and let them work on it with Nathan. That takes the emotion out of the equation for you. Healthier all around.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!