Deflecting. That's what she is doing, deflecting. WTF! I'm so pissed. I've been keeping my cool and she pulls this on me. WTF!
My mom is a pro-deflecter. There is nothing more irritating.... It's difficult to get anything accomplished when they're in deflecting mode. I have to wait until my mom is in the right mood to have reasonable,worth while discussions some times.
I also get frustrated and pissed when I've been calm and my H's actions get me stirred up again. I get mad sometimes now when I cry b/c I'm so tired of being upset about my sitch....
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
