do what feels comfortable with you, he sure is doing that. If you are fine with just texting/emailing, or short convos then keep it that way. If he is "sick" guess who's loss is it? take full advantage and make it a special day for your d12, dont' show how dissapointed you are, just wave it off, for her sake, and plan something at home. Whatever you do, dont' expect the same courtesy from him, if you are left with expectations then it means you are doing too much.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
