Always listen to your inner voice! I knew the last 2 nights were probably a mistake - fun but a mistake. He said tonight that he's confused about the last 2 nights and doesn't know what to think. I told him quite frankly it was a little confusing to me too. He readily admitted it was his fault (he pursued me). I told him we'd better cool it tonight. He also said he's nervous about going to the lake next weekend and he doesn't know why. He said he still might try to go to the lake on Saturday (our counseling appt is Friday at 6 pm). I'm surprrisingly calm. I told him he doesn't have to go with us next weekend if it's too uncomfortable for him.

I made dinner and cleaned up, took my shower. He went downstairs while I was in the shower. It will be interesting to see where he sleeps tonight.

I'm just playing it cool doing my own thing and really just staying out of his way.

Must be a MLC! What do you think? Sandi I'm really interested in your opinion if you're out there.