There have been no issues in the M and I have really been trying to find out if I just missed everything or some small thing. How could I have not seen one thing? He was starting to get distant since about 2 months, but I knew we were moving for my job and he was having a hard time finding something he was comfortable with in that area. Every time I brought it up, he said he needed some time to figure it out. So, I gave him space. We both tend to need our space at times. I had an exam coming up and so was preoccupied with that for the last month or so. And so, I could have missed the signs then...
Then, it became he is confused with his life....and he doesn't know where he is going with his life....he doesn't want any more responsibility...he doesn't want the responsibility of a wife.....he just wants to be alone.
He has been struggling with figuring out what he wants to do with his career. All he said to me was that he feels confused and he doesn't think it would be fair to put me thru his confusion. Other than that.....I don't have a clue as to what happened. He says he will meet with me after some time....to talk....but, right now just cannot do that. It is too difficult. He cried while giving me the papers. 3 days after he gave me the papers he said he loved me more than anyone else in his whole life.
I guess there could be OW, but I think he is burnt out and has been carrying alot of burden these last 5 years or so. He has not taken a vacation of any sort for the last 5 years. I have been trying to get him to do that, but he kept saying "later". He has worked 6 days a week for the last 2 years.
I am really just not sure what is happening since he is not talking to me. I will just have to wait until he comes around to see me, I guess. I just don't know.
