The changes you are doing should be for you and not your wife. These are changes you need to make to function in successful relationships, period! If your wife sees them that is bonus. Focus more on changing because it's the right thing to do for YOU!
Congrats on the strides you have made so far!
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
