Hey Mish..no new thread..I did drop off the radar. It's baseball season and I've been very involved with that and a new project at work that has kept me busy.
Just an update since I'm here...and some might want to know. W is still pregnant. We can't get divorced until after the baby is born. At that time, if OM signs birth certificate; I'm free. Otherwise, it's sperm count and a paternity test. I had a vasectomy back in Sept. 2004. We're friendly, she's been helping out more with the kids. But I'm sure a lot of that has to due with the fact that OM has left her. He says that he will take care of his responsiblities.
She mentioned again that she thinks that God wants us to work on our M and that she was willing if I was willing. I told her, "No." I wasn't interested. If she was wanting to reconcile for the right reasons, maybe; but I know it was a proposal for a matter of convenience for her. OM has left her, she's pregnant and no one to take care of her. But, for me, our ship has sailed. In order for her to become a healthy individual and walk closer to God; I really feel that bailing her out will not benefit her in the long run. She needs to suffer the consequences of her actions and live without a man (which she self-admits that she has never done)!
Diane...if she ever had an ectopic pregnancy; she doesn't now. I believe it was a ruse to explain away a possible termination which she was considering early on. She probably only told me about the pregnancy because she knew that I would see the insurance EOBs. Now I'm not totally convinced that she's NOT keeping the baby just to punish the OM for him leaving her. Evidently, he got tired of the lying long before I ever did. LOL
Thanks for checking in on me guys...It's been healthy to be away.
