quick question - how much to tell WAS about GAL

[hopefulinEG]

I have a blog that I keep and friends/family read. I know that WAS also reads the blog.

I have been doing quite a bit of GALing lately and wonder whether to write about it on the blog. Not much details but stuff like I went to Ballroom/Latin dance lessons last night and had a blast.

I have read that you should be vague about what you are doing just that you are having fun without them.

Will this ruin the mystery? Or could it be good for her to see that I am doing fun things and meeting new people without her?

[hopefulinEG]

This is what I was thinking of posting


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With all the changes lately I realized that over the last number of years I had become a major homebody and hardly ever went out and did fun things. So I made a decision to start doing fun things even if I had to do it by myself. And I am proud of myself for actually doing it. I have done things I had never done before and probably never would have, especially alone.

I joined two social groups from meetup.com. It was hard going to things by myself at first but everyone was so nice and I have made a couple new friends. I have 2 meetups with the them this weekend that will be fun.

I went out to a club with a new friend Heather I meet at one of the meetups and danced and laughed and am glad to have made a new friend.

Yesterday I finally got a coworker to take me to the driving range and had a great time learning. I didn't do half bad for my first time. Although I didn't realize all the muscles that would hurt. Who knew that it would make your tush hurt. lol

And Last night I went to a Ballroom/Latin dance lesson and. Heather was supposed to meet me there but ended up staying late at work but I stayed and put aside my embarrassment of being a horrible dancer and didn't worry about what others thought. I ended up having such a good time. I will definitely be going back.

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[MrBond]

I think it's fine to mention what you've been doing, but if you want to save your M, then leave the stuff about "Heather" out of it.

That might show her that you've moved on and don't need her any more.