SSW struggling with GAL

[Kettricken]

I'm actually with DQ on the question of porn. *Especially* if it's hidden solo porn use.

he almost immediately turns off after we ML and starts talking about the kids or my mother or his mother or ANYTHING unsexy before the sweat even dries

My h. used to do this too. And it hurt me as it hurts you.

He doesn't do that anymore. He may still fall asleep, but there's none of that weird 'discussing the state of the economy' pitiful excuse for post-coital pillow talk. Let me ask him why it changed and I'll get back to you.