I've never posted to you before, or even on this side, but I had to say something.

This is NOT a tubal pregnancy. I had an ectopic pregnancy and unless she's got a TWIT for a doctor, they don't just say, oh hopefully it's not and move on to wait for a US. It IS emergency surgery so the mother doesn't die along with the baby. I am offended that she would have the gumption to even say the words. There are women out there who have lost their lives to this sort of pregnancy, and its sad she made it up. I lost my son due to an ectopic and it's not to be taken lightly............


SO< 1 of 2 things. OUTRIGHT LIE!!! OR, she does have a twit for a doctor and her life is in jeopardy EVERY day she carries her child in the tube........ Its horrible and very sad cause unfortunately the baby can not be saved. BUT< HER life can if this is the case. Mine went undetected and I almost died, this is nothing to be taken lightly.

SO SORRY you have to deal with that. Seems to horrible to even fathom to me. But, IF there is ANY chance it is ectopic, then SOMEONE needs to step in and her her to a hospital now! Really, tell her parents, whomever, cause ectopic pregnancies you do not wait around for.


again, so sorry ....