How are you? Please update me. You haven't filled me in for while now.
It is so dreary here. We have had so much rain lately. My yard looks like a lake. Luckily, it's not bad enough to get in my house although some around here have not been so lucky.
DD graduates May 21st. She leaves on May 22nd to go to FL with a group of friends. She turns 18 on May 23rd. She is very excited to be able to celebrate her b-day in FL. We will celebrate her b-day before she leaves. She's already picked out the restaurant. I asked her if she wanted to do a double celebration for her b-day and graduation. She said no, she just wants a small celebration for her b-day. I guess she knows she'll have a big one with her friends on the beach!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Hmmmm....now that you are not biting, maybe we should call him Yoyo-husband.
Seriously I'm proud of you for not biting. For real.
I see...he wants to reconcile HIS way?
Even if he fires her, or she quits...keep running. It's too easy for him to run back to her when things get "real" with you.
I really don't know what he could do to earn your trust at this point.
Believe me Theo I've considered all of these factors. He has proven time and time again to be a very untrustworthy person. If we were to reconcile it would be like walking on eggshells all of the time. That is not something I want. He still blames me for his straying. He actually told me that!
I continue to be "selfish" and find my own happiness. I'm in charge of my own life. Yes, I would like to eventually share my life with someone, but my H continues to show me that it cannot be him. I have so many good things going on in my life and I'm very thankful for them.
How is your life Theo? Inquiring minds want to know!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Believe me Theo I've considered all of these factors. He has proven time and time again to be a very untrustworthy person. If we were to reconcile it would be like walking on eggshells all of the time. That is not something I want. He still blames me for his straying. He actually told me that!
That says it all.
I'm focusing on actually taking care of myself. I've had one too many wake-up calls regarding my health and mental well-being.
So when is your DD's graduation? Right around the corner or already passed? Such a bittersweet time. I feel it even now with my s16's "teenager" switch being fully activated!!LOL
Keep staying focused and enjoy this time with your daughters.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
DD graduates May 21st. She leaves on May 22nd to go to FL with a group of friends. She turns 18 on May 23rd. She is very excited to be able to celebrate her b-day in FL. We will celebrate her b-day before she leaves. She's already picked out the restaurant. I asked her if she wanted to do a double celebration for her b-day and graduation. She said no, she just wants a small celebration for her b-day. I guess she knows she'll have a big one with her friends on the beach! Ahhhhh...to be young again!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
How are you missy? I know you must be going crazy with all the graduation/birthday/trip chaos. Treat yourself to some spa time while she is gone or take a little trip...I think I am only 7 hours away(hint)lol.
Let us know how you are. I miss you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hi Kat, Yes, I am meeting myself coming and going. I am still swamped at work, but the end is in sight. I have a week and left of school left!
Tomorrow night is DD's graduation. Hard to believe that my youngest is graduating.
I went by the pool place yesterday. I made an appointment for them to come next Tuesday to open and clean the pool. Pool party anyone next weekend? I can not wait to lie around the pool and soak up the rays, I'm ready for a little R and R. May have to have some slushy delicious beverages also!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon