thats guys for the advice. this is funny - i decided to go dark, or dim, left the store today, didnt call him or text him, and he just called 2 times. the first time i wasnt home, saw he called, didnt call him back.

he just called again and i answered. he was like, i called u before. i was like, ok, i wasnt home.

i kept the conversation to a minimum, did not volunteer anything, did not ask anything and i ended the call.

i really thought it would take a week for him to notice i was pulling back.

hmm.

i would love to get away with him, ive suggested it several times.

its time he does something. its time he makes an effort.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09