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I'm an engineer by degree, so statistics make some sense to me.


Oh, so you're one of those logical people.

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Ok, I can also say that even if there is only 1% chance, it's a chance.


Statisics are relative (to me anyway). If out of 1 million M's all but one is saved and that one isn't you. That completely sux. Now reverse it and only one is saved and it is you. This was posted to me sometime ago. Made me think. Doesn't matter the odds in my world. You either decide to go after it or you don't. If you can't, it doesn't make you a bad person. It just means it's something you couldn't do. Just as hanging in there doesn't make you a better person. It's all about what you chose. We all chose differnt things based on what we know about ourselves and what we believe to be right for us.

Do take the time to think about what you want. Use this bb as a sounding board too. Sometimes when you "say" it outloud you get a better sense of whether you really believe it.

HUGS