A month or so I approached the idea of Retrouvaille - told her about it and asked if would be willing to go. She is religious (brought up Catholic, goes to church) but her answer was as follows:
"No, this is sponsored by the church, and I know that the goal will be to save the M at all costs. I am not going to go to any sort of counseling or retreats where the goal is to convince me to stay married."
That is not the goal of Retro. How does she "know" this?
She doesn't know. She wouldn't even look at it.
This is just her mindset right now.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
