I have pity for him, which might not be same as compassion, I do feel at some degree, he was a good man, if he ever finds God he might go back to what he was.

Well, I went to the divorceCare group, it was like meeting people from here but putting faces on them, I made a friend (just friend) on a meetup group and brought him, he was glad he went, he will keep on going, he's brand new at this mess.
We exchanged #, I exchanged #s with this lady who has a 2 yr old, eats at all hrs inordinate amounts of food and stays up 'til 4am, her son stays up with her.
I pray that through me God can give her the peace she needs, I will be calling her and will talk to her, she seems to have a lot of anxiety.

D6 still cries when she has to go, I can see how she is faking it a bit, so it's hard for me to deal with it, thank heavens for the C, we see her today, hope this gets better, it goes up and down up and down...

Hugs to all)))))))))))

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.