I do however wish you luck and will keep you in my prayers.
That was pretty much ALL that needed to be said.
And if someone tells you either nicely or otherwise not to post on their thread it is a respect issue to honor their wishes...no we don't actually own this thread or anything on the board it is an honor system it is a courtesy.
Really, deep down start asking yourself if what your posting is actually helping someone or just mean spirited to hurt them and their beliefs. And no; opening their eyes to what you believe isn't helping them.
Jack, you and I are certainly different in our beliefs, but let me assure you that I do not intend to be mean nor hurt anyone and I am sorry that people take it as such. I will say that I do give advice that is much different than most, with that being said, no one has to take it. I am a very positive person, I know that many on here don't believe that, and that is thier right. I do believe that one gets more positive when they start moving forward and stop obsessing about the EX or STBX, or whatever you wish to call it. I sincerely believe that the best chance to rebuild the marriage comes with those who move ahead and build themselves and not worry about what the WAS/MLCer is doing. I just have a different style and way about myself, sorry if it isn't to some people's liking, but that is the way I am.
