A month or so I approached the idea of Retrouvaille - told her about it and asked if would be willing to go. She is religious (brought up Catholic, goes to church) but her answer was as follows:
"No, this is sponsored by the church, and I know that the goal will be to save the M at all costs. I am not going to go to any sort of counseling or retreats where the goal is to convince me to stay married."
That is not the goal of Retro. How does she "know" this?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.