I've made a commitment to stay married and she knows it. For the most part my W is and has been an honest person. When she was struck with the MLC monster she stayed very private. When she ran up the CC bills she intended on paying them back. Even before her MLC she wasn't very responsible when it came to finances.
If she leaves me it's because she wants to shake up her life. I think she's smart enough to know what she has, but too selfish to love.
