Your mom is right...even though I know what you are feeling. There is something missing.
Ok, to show his *** is disgusting. I am sure you turning him down popped his overinflated ego as well.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
He is psycho...seriously. So, I haven't heard from him...duh, like I would. I have started the application for DCSS for CS. It sucks that I have to take this route. But, it's for K and he if can't understand that...too bad. I just don't have a choice. Other than that, things are going well.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
didn't you already tell him you would have to do CSS? why did you bring that whole thing up? you already knew he was lying, and you know that if you confronted him, he would not give you anything. What were you expecting? not to be mean, but seriously asking.
and OMG, you know he is ticked at you for not taking his offer! lol
I can't believe he did that! I thought for a sec you were just joking!, but I guess not. Boy, how pathetic that girl is for being with him. wow. so what did he do when you laughed? was he mad? that is so crazy, I can't believe he actually did that. He is definitely trying to get a reaction of some kind from you.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
"He is cordiall. I ask id he got his UI check. He says "No". I confront.. telling him I know he did and how much. He says "I have bills to pay so I can support K". I say "So do I, I drive her school everyday, I take her to the doctor, I pay the health insurance...I have bills, too. You haven't paid 8 months worth." He says " What the "F" do you want?" I say, " Money to help take care of your daughter I'm going to go through CSS." He says "Go the F ahead"."
Give this your best FG critique.
"I can't believe he did that!"
I think he very likely walks around with it in his hand.. all the time. Hey.. you always go with what you know.
Blindsided1.. you do the "nice" things for you.. and your sanity.
I'm going a little crazy today. Lack of sleep....work is horrible. I'm getting heat for things I had nothing to do with...all because I am an easy target and the owner is panicking because our business has taken a nose-dive. This doesn't look good. K is teething, but she slept through the night last night for the first time in a week....phew. Money is scarce. I'm feeling a bit defeated today. Oh, and my ex is a jerk.
Have a great Wednesday.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
I'm going a little crazy today. Lack of sleep....work is horrible. I'm getting heat for things I had nothing to do with...all because I am an easy target and the owner is panicking because our business has taken a nose-dive. This doesn't look good. K is teething, but she slept through the night last night for the first time in a week....phew. Money is scarce. I'm feeling a bit defeated today. Oh, and my ex is a jerk.
Have a great Wednesday.
Sounds festive! Just remember, this too shall pass and at least you got a laugh on Friday. I seriously cracked up when I read what you put about him whippin' it out and asking if you wanted to... What a jackass! I am so proud of you for laughing! That was awesome! Didn't you just feel like asking him, "So, is that the best you've got these days?" "Way to bring your A game, Don Juan!"
Sorry things are not perfect, but you are moving in the right direction. Keep your chin up!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Thanks Sug. It was pretty darn funny. Like he thinks I'm just dying to have sex with him because he is soooo desireable? Not. I actually think he is kinda gross these days. I think I would rather spend time with my battery operated boyfriend than him. We'll see what this weekend brings.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
I think I would rather spend time with my battery operated boyfriend than him.
ROFLMAO...At least you know where hes been and his A game depends on how new the batteries are.
Have a good one.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I agree! The more I hear about the twins separated at birth the more I wanna throw up!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Good morning. Still not a peep from my STBX. Feels okay. Really. Another day in paradise at the office. It's supposed to be a nice hot weekend. Ahhh and the pool has just been cleaned.
And, yes SO2 - they are truly one in the same.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
