...so he called. Sounded pretty down, or the convo was a bit awkward, I couldnt think if much funny to say and also, I am tired. But he was keen to get our house rerented and was supportive about college. So... good and bad. Bad first:
- He said he was going to buy a mower, or ask the Landlord to get one, as "the garden will need doing".. so, doesnt sound like he is planning to move out hey.
- We talked about my house and he was encouraging me to get some professional exterminators in and then he said sort of embarressed and offhand "well, its nonoe of my business really".. which threw me. I would NEVER say that to him if we had been discussing his Dads house. Our finances are so entwined.
- I may have found tenants for our house, but I was concerned as they want to redecorate and I coulndt help say "but what about brush marks?" (as I meant, if I, or we ever live there it would annoy me/us) he must've got what I meant as he said a bit embarressed "well, we can worry about that later..." and sort of trailed off.
Good was... - his housemate came in and asked him to come to the cinema and for a meal with him and his gf (I was worrying, is that a 4??) my ex wasnt keen, but this guy was persuading him and saying, why dont you come with us? So he must be concerned that my ex is quite down (he did sound it), so he agreed and then joked to me that he would be "a right gooseberry".. so Helen obviously is history. Wow.
- He invited me to band night !! He saidso are you coming to band night then? I was vague but he said he was definetly going, so I said I was planning too but I cant drink and said it would be nice to see you anyway.. he said, yes, you too, well that would be cool...we'll... have a chat. I said ok.
So.. does a mean A CHAT? Or just, a regular chit chat??? We'll see....
