Thanks for the link to the Taken in Hand website. I thinkfind your approach is more in the realm of something I can get my head around and see myself doing. Where did you coem up with the full s/a and the safe word concepts? Was it from the TIH site?
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"