LolaL....well said...and Kerryk...feel free to forward any of those emails if you still have them. I have a 'guru' who writes a newsletter for his book (you probably know him)...and he has been super supportive and helpful.

I am constantly being threatened...checked on ....she is ready to pounce on me at everystep here. Even last night, when my daughter woke up with stomach pain and had to have a BM....she threatened me when I wanted to stay with her...as if it was 'inappropriate'. She later said , "make sure you don't sleep with her again"...referring to my daughter coming into the MBR when she has a bad dream. You can guess what she is going to pull next.

She is ramping up the tension again...out of anger...because of the appraisal that favors me (if being in the hole is favorable).

Still...read that bio my son wrote. How dark is THAT??? Who would give that story to their kids as the history of their life????

FIB

BM...don't worry.....no dating. Besides...who wants to date a man living under the same roof as his STBXW?


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;