Well, righto, my H came over to visit & for dinner tonight. We hugged & kissed hello. The dogs were of course excited to see him. Again, we started the eve off with a martini. Kinda the same old chit chat about his job, his friend Bob, who he still says he is trying to distance himself from. When he said that, I said yeah, you keep saying that & he said yeah, I know & am working on keeping my distance. When talking about his job, I told him he should make a list of his accomplishments either for a raise or for an interview. He thought that was a good idea.
After dinner, while having coffee, I decided to be bold. I can just hear a GF of mine saying - oh no - you didn't!! Anyway I asked him if he still thought of me as the librarian type (DBcoach Jody told me that comes from Playboy). My H said yes, but said I don't know how many books you read. I said a lot these past 2 years. Then I asked him, in a very serious tone. I'm just curious, but would you be interested or would you like to ML one last time before we get D? He said, sure but not tonight, I'm tired. LOL I started giggling & he smiled & called me crazy. Strangely it was all light-hearted. I said it was a yes or no question & if he didn't want to that I respected his decision. Sorry, but I can't stop smiling when typing this - cuz, well, I am crazy, just no papers to prove it! Our convo then switched around to other things for a bit. He signed the D paper I needed signed. I gave him the D papers he needed. I told him he had to show up for the hearing - otherwise all bets are off. He also said he knew, he needed to start taking his stuff. It was soon time for him to leave & I gave him some leftovers. We hugged & kissed goodbye. He told me & the dogs he would see us next week.
Well, I guess I will see if I scared him away or not, with my crazy antics. What path is it I'm taking again ......???? Oh, that's right to being happy
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
You meet someone and she gives you her phone number..... I assume that means she is okay with calling her OR do women give number to guys because they don't want to say no face to face but will later on the phone???
And if you call the next day do you look desperate?
Yes, yes it is. I found that out with M3. Strange, I've never been into the dating game - but then I'm the silent b*tchty looking type, guess that explains it then. LOL
Oh, well it is what it is.
On another subject - have you ever gotten angry at your D, maybe yelled at her & then said you were sorry?
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
I started giggling & he smiled & called me crazy. Strangely it was all light-hearted. I said it was a yes or no question & if he didn't want to that I respected his decision. Sorry, but I can't stop smiling when typing this - cuz, well, I am crazy, just no papers to prove it! Our convo then switched around to other things for a bit. He signed the D paper I needed signed. I gave him the D papers he needed. I told him he had to show up for the hearing - otherwise all bets are off. He also said he knew, he needed to start taking his stuff. It was soon time for him to leave & I gave him some leftovers. We hugged & kissed goodbye. He told me & the dogs he would see us next week. 
