Oh...My...Goodness...! Thank you all so much for your feedback! I appreciate it more than I can say!
I think Bagheera hit the nail on the head when he said that H is trying to continue the pretense that all is well in the relationship, when really it is not. Just a couple days ago we were talking about a friend's problems w/ her H, and he said, "Everyone's on the rocks but us." I just about fell on the floor. He really thinks everything is fine, just fine.
I think that I may need to back off a bit so he can handle some things at work. (This is tricky, cause things are tough at work right now, but things will be tough at work till he retires!) I seriously don't want to force myself on him. Would it be wise to ask him to tell me when we could begin to look at and work on these issues, and then hold him to it?
In the meantime, I went to the gym and took S to storytime (ahh, the life of a stay-at-home-mom!) and picked up D at Kindergarten. After I make them lunch and do some laundry, we will be off to the park for some bike riding, then home for homework and dinner and baths. He asks me all the time what I do all day, and says I am upset because I have nothing to do but sit on Facebook and make myself sad.
