Partner left after 9 yrs - Finished with ow!! wow

[MichelleLT]

I remember feeling that way when STBXH told me he was going to break up with OW, the waiting was torture. And then when he did call to see me I was so impatient to see him. But we all know how that went...he went back to her less than a month later.

Focus on school and let him sort himself out. Time and space is the greatest thing you can give to him right now, and by giving him that you ARE doing something helpful.