Hi innishannon, I wish that things were easier for you. I know that its tough right now. Have you been saving the emails that he has sent you? I know that he hasnt contacted you lately, but I think that its important to save things like that.
You will always have hope. Maybe not a H, but You will always know that you have done the right thing, and you did not cause the end of your M, You fought as hard as you could. And that is so important to remember.
Can he continue this process if you refuse to participate? I told my H that D was too big of a deal to make a decision while he was obviously making poor decisions, such as seeing a M OW! It ended up resulting in a purgatory that Im not sure how will end, but its my M too,and I didnt want it to end. So I wasnt going to participate.
I can almost tell you with 100% certainty that their A will fail, they almost always do. You have to decide where to be when that happens. Maybe you will have come so far for yourself that you dont want the cruel, unfaithful, louse back... after all, you certainly do deserve better.
I saw once on here that the best revenge for a woman who steals another womans H is to let her have him.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
