ok, so h is being impossible, stress from the business is totally taking over our relationship and i am not being treated the right way.

im thinking to go dark, or atleast dim for now.

its unfortunate, i thought him coming home would be an adjustment but not this lousy.

there are alot of outstanding issues, financial and emotional and i try to get him to talk about them and deal with them and he is not.

i wonder if dark will even help.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09