Hmmm... It does sound like she is still hanging onto the fantasy rather than seeing you and the M for what it is and having faith that she can have what she wants.
I also think that she is staying faithful to the OM, even if she isn't involved with him anymore, and that is why she isn't ML with you or why your sexually charged compliments don't feel right. She has internally rejected you as *her* man.
I buy this.
Not much I can do but GAL and self improvement (for myself)...
...and be patient
...and not drive myself crazy
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
