Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing 3

[Thinker]

Another note / clue:

A month or so I approached the idea of Retrouvaille - told her about it and asked if would be willing to go. She is religious (brought up Catholic, goes to church) but her answer was as follows:

"No, this is sponsored by the church, and I know that the goal will be to save the M at all costs. I am not going to go to any sort of counseling or retreats where the goal is to convince me to stay married."

So here she is, sitting firmly on the fence. She is not making any moves to leave, and is slowly making small steps toward me, but refuses to be emotionally intimate and running from any steps toward reconciliation.