I was supposed to get divorced tomorrow...!

[1853dave]

" And don't forget to work on your relationship with God and other people around you - you are still in control of that. However you will hear all sorts of (often quite silly) opinions from people - you will ultimately need to listen to what your own heart is telling you and then use your brain to follow your heart. "

Exactly. I've become rather picky who I share with, because so many others have been through the adversarial divorces, and others I think actually like to be on the sidelines, witnessing the action. Adds to the gossip.