That gives me joy. \:\) It helps to get informed as much as possible rather than groping around in the dark, hoping you'll get where you want to go.

I was referring to pretending to be ignorant about your abilities to read people, especially your wife. If you can't read your wife, there is an obvious lack of connection that you either lost or never had. I certainly was not calling you stupid or uneducated.

You are SMART for turning your life around and being proactive about reaching for your goals. Coming here is smart. Reading is smart.

Lucky