I worry that if she doesn't call him out on this anger tactic, that he'll just use it again. Really... What does he have to be angry about? That his W wants to ML with him?
In MY sitch, I had to reverse my typical pattern of retreating after each talk because my H COUNTED ON IT. He played each cycle the same way, and I let him off the hook over and over and over again. Lala, read my first post on "Peeling the Onion" for the full description of how that last talk went so you can get the full flavor.
Depends where you are in your stage of personal development, I suppose. When you're done pussy footing around, you're done.
